Term insurance is the right answer for almost every household that needs life cover. That argument is well made elsewhere and this chapter takes it as decided.
This chapter is about the remainder — the situations where permanent insurance is genuinely the correct instrument rather than a mis-sale — and about what goes wrong for everyone else who ends up owning it anyway.
Five situations. They have a shape in common: a need that does not end, or a need for money to arrive at a moment nothing else can cover.
A dependant who will never be independent. A child with a disability who will need support for their whole life is the clearest case in the subject. The need does not expire, so cover that expires is the wrong instrument.
An estate that is illiquid and taxable. A farm, a building, a private company — assets that cannot be sold in pieces to pay a tax bill. Insurance provides cash at exactly the moment the bill arrives, without forcing a sale.
Note the federal threshold before assuming this applies: the basic exclusion is $15,000,000 per person for 2026, indexed from 2027.1 Very few estates reach it. State thresholds are often far lower and are the more common reason this case is real, so the question is about your state as much as the federal number.
A buy-sell agreement. Two partners own a business. One dies. The survivor needs to buy the deceased's share from their family, and the family needs to be paid. Insurance funds that transaction at the moment it is triggered.
Key-person cover. A business that would lose serious value if one specific person died. The company owns the policy and is the beneficiary.
Someone insurable now who will not be later. A person with a family history or an early diagnosis, who can pass underwriting today and will not in five years. Locking in insurability is a real thing to buy.
There is a sixth, weaker case: a high earner who has genuinely filled every tax-advantaged account available and wants another tax-deferred container. Real, but it is last on the list and it is the one most often invoked by people who have not actually filled the others.
The product is priced on an assumption about your behavior, and the assumption is that you will not keep it.
29% of permanent policyholders lapse within three years. 57% within ten.2 Roughly 88% of universal life policies never terminate in a death claim.2 For policies sold at age 65, about 74% of term and 76% of universal life never pay one.2 Between 1990 and 2010, around $24 trillion of coverage was dropped — about 78% of all coverage issued.2
Those are not failures of the product. They are the product.
This has a name — lapse-supported pricing — and it is a documented actuarial technique rather than an accusation. Insurers' own actuaries have shown the arithmetic plainly. A secondary-guarantee universal life policy was projected at minus 12.8% profit if nobody lapsed, and plus 13.6% at a typical 4% lapse rate. A 30-year term policy was worth plus $103,000 in present value under normal lapse patterns and minus $942,000 with none.2
Read that again in plain terms: the product depends on you not doing the one thing you bought it for. If everyone held their policy to death, several of these products would lose money by design.
More recent data confirms the pattern continues. A study covering 24 companies, 33.5 million policy exposures and $8.5 trillion of face amount over 2015–2021 found 1.3 million lapse terminations — roughly 3.9% a year.3
Two mechanisms, both structural.
The commission is front-loaded. Most of what the seller earns arrives in year one. That severs their payoff from whether the product still works for you in year eleven. There is also a specific wrinkle worth knowing: carriers set a "target premium," and money you pay above that target earns the seller a much lower rate.4 Which tells you something about how a recommended premium gets chosen.
Life insurance is not covered by the best-interest standard that covers annuities. The model regulation requiring a recommendation to be in the consumer's best interest applies, by its own scope section, to "any sale or recommendation of an annuity."5 That is a fact about scope, not an accusation about any particular sale — but it means the protection you might assume exists does not.
If you already own a permanent policy, you are the most likely person in this chapter to be sold something.
Compensation resets on every new contract. Replacing your policy regenerates a first-year commission, and you pay twice — a surrender charge going out, and a fresh commission schedule going in. One documented replacement case cost the insured $40,000 in net cash value.4
Replacement is sometimes right. An old, badly performing policy can genuinely be improved on. The tell is not that it was suggested — it is whether anyone showed you the arithmetic of staying put, in writing, alongside the arithmetic of moving.
Two questions cut through it. What does it cost me to leave this policy? And what is your compensation on the new one against the old one?
Permanent policies let you borrow against the cash value, and this is often sold as a feature — your own money, available to you.
The interest rate is the part that goes unmentioned. Outstanding policy loans stood at about $135 billion in 2016, at fixed rates around 8% in early 2018 — against roughly 4.25% for a 30-year mortgage at the same time.2
Worse, an unpaid loan grows, and if it consumes the cash value the policy can collapse — taking the death benefit with it and, in some circumstances, producing a tax bill on money you never received. A policy that lapses with a loan outstanding is the worst outcome available in this whole subject.
Do not surrender it on the strength of a chapter. Four steps, in order:
Sometimes the right answer is to keep a policy that was mis-sold, because the cost of leaving now exceeds the cost of staying. That is an unsatisfying conclusion and it is frequently the correct one.
Permanent policies are among the least visible things households own. The premium is a standing payment; the cash value is a number on an annual statement nobody opens; the loan balance is invisible until it matters. Plenee's contribution is to put the premium beside everything else it competes with, and to make the annual question — is this still doing its job — something that gets asked at all.
There are five real cases: a lifelong dependant, an illiquid taxable estate, a buy-sell agreement, key-person cover, and locking in insurability before you lose it. Outside those, the product is priced on the assumption you will drop it, and most people do — 29% within three years, 57% within ten. If everyone held to death, some of these policies would lose money by design. If you already own one, get an in-force illustration before doing anything, and treat any suggestion to replace it as a request to show you both sets of numbers.
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